Feeling Down?
By Mohamad Farhan Huszaimi Bin M. Pajar
Fail? who love failure? probably nobody loves it. Why? maybe because failure is painful. If it is painful, then why must 'fail' itself exist in this world? why must the feeling of disappointment do exist in this world? I believe, everything, every single thing in this world created for something. Can you imagine what does it look like if people do not feel pain if they fail?
Can you imagine what does it look like if people do not feel pain if they fail? Probably there will be no Einstein, there will be Steve job, there will be no Aristotle or pluto and other famous scholars in this world. If you feel low and disappointed due to failure, good for you because you are still a human. If you feel stuck in life, if you feel there is no more life for you, if you feel that you want to die, if you feel like death is the only way to solve problems, good because you are still human.
Most people come to me and said "Hey Farhan, I'm done, I fail, there's nothing I can do to change my life to be a better person" or "that is it, I'm done with my career in sport" or "I have no money to pay loan" and etc. In other words, most people give up ith their life when they are facing big problems.
Have you ridden a bicycle before? how many people fell down when they rode the bike for the first time? probably most of them fell down. Then what do they do? Do they just stay lie on the ground and let themselves sleep on the ground and sink by the rain? no, they get back on their foot. Moreover, look at babies, how many times do they fall down from walking? you can say almost everytime! BUT do they give up? NO, Do they stay on the ground? NO, they keep on trying to walk, they do not care what people said and if people laugh at them, all they do are just walk. Look at the effect, by looking at 4 years old children. They can run, jump, and walk easily without falling down (maybe sometimes if they hit anything).
My point is, every success must accompany by failureS. I think there is nobody in this world who experience success without failure. The different between successful people and non-successful people is just successful people, they KEEP MOVING FORWARD if they FAIL, while non-successful people they QUIT after they have failed once or more than 10000. If you have many loans that you need to pay, and you feel that you cannot make it, just give a shot at least you try. If you fail the test many times, learn from your previous mistakes and try again. If you break up with your partner, keep moving forward, people said: "there are many fishes in the sea". Whatever we do we must give our best shot. FORGET THE PAST AND FOCUS ON THE FUTURE. We cannot change the past, what can we do is just change who we will be. The important thing is NOT who we ARE, but WHO WE WILL be in the future.
That is the nature of life, which keeps moving forward and arise from failure. Every species do that, and we as Homosapien must also do the same thing. Hope I have helped you guys something. I'm really sorry if my words are not really support
Can you imagine what does it look like if people do not feel pain if they fail? Probably there will be no Einstein, there will be Steve job, there will be no Aristotle or pluto and other famous scholars in this world. If you feel low and disappointed due to failure, good for you because you are still a human. If you feel stuck in life, if you feel there is no more life for you, if you feel that you want to die, if you feel like death is the only way to solve problems, good because you are still human.
Most people come to me and said "Hey Farhan, I'm done, I fail, there's nothing I can do to change my life to be a better person" or "that is it, I'm done with my career in sport" or "I have no money to pay loan" and etc. In other words, most people give up ith their life when they are facing big problems.
Have you ridden a bicycle before? how many people fell down when they rode the bike for the first time? probably most of them fell down. Then what do they do? Do they just stay lie on the ground and let themselves sleep on the ground and sink by the rain? no, they get back on their foot. Moreover, look at babies, how many times do they fall down from walking? you can say almost everytime! BUT do they give up? NO, Do they stay on the ground? NO, they keep on trying to walk, they do not care what people said and if people laugh at them, all they do are just walk. Look at the effect, by looking at 4 years old children. They can run, jump, and walk easily without falling down (maybe sometimes if they hit anything).
My point is, every success must accompany by failureS. I think there is nobody in this world who experience success without failure. The different between successful people and non-successful people is just successful people, they KEEP MOVING FORWARD if they FAIL, while non-successful people they QUIT after they have failed once or more than 10000. If you have many loans that you need to pay, and you feel that you cannot make it, just give a shot at least you try. If you fail the test many times, learn from your previous mistakes and try again. If you break up with your partner, keep moving forward, people said: "there are many fishes in the sea". Whatever we do we must give our best shot. FORGET THE PAST AND FOCUS ON THE FUTURE. We cannot change the past, what can we do is just change who we will be. The important thing is NOT who we ARE, but WHO WE WILL be in the future.
That is the nature of life, which keeps moving forward and arise from failure. Every species do that, and we as Homosapien must also do the same thing. Hope I have helped you guys something. I'm really sorry if my words are not really support
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