Definition of Marriage

What Is Marriage?

by Mohamad Farhan Huszaimi bin M.Pajar

            Many people see that marriage is important in life. Walljasper says in his “State of the Union” article, “American domestic policy, . . asked congress to spend $1.5 billion on programs to train low-income people in the interpersonal skills that will help them get and stay married” (1). This is because they look at marriage as an important status and pride for them so that they will not feel guilty about having a child after they got married. For instance, Muslim guys need to get married first before they can even touch the women that they want to live with for the whole of their life. If there is enough proof, a couple who had sex before being married will be whipped 100 times in front of crowd, and if one of a married couple had sex with other than the person they married, the punishment is stoning until they die. On the other side, there are certain people who think marriage is not important and marriage is just a waste of time because it burdens a person because they have to give a big commitment and big sacrifices in their life after they get married. First of all, we need to think, what is marriage? Marriage is a unification of two hearts, a commitment in a person’s life, and a level of trust between the couple.

            First of all, marriage is a unification of two totally different hearts. The point here is sharing. After a person gets married, he or she needs to be a sharing person. The married couple needs to share everything, including their personal lives and their own families. After people get married, usually they need to share bed, house, and feelings. In order to have a successful marriage, the married couple needs to face challenges in their life together instead of alone. Facing problems in life together will make married couples solve the problems easily because they will think more broadly than if they were alone. Couple with successful marriage will be able to solve problems together, such as which school they should send their children to and how to raise their children, while unsuccessful married couple will not be able to solve a problem together because they will keep arguing and usually end up thinking they are not a match and may divorce. Marriage is sharing in personal life, and marriage is a unification of two hearts into one.

            Marriage is a commitment in also a person’s life. Married people need to be responsible to their partner. For instance, before a guy gets married, he can go drink at the bar all day long from early morning until late night because he still does not have responsibility to think about anybody except himself. After the man gets married, he can still waste his time such as going to the bar until late night, but now he has to be responsible of what are the effects of going to the bar until late night to his wife, and maybe even a child. A successful marriage occurs when a person is committed in marriage. For example, a husband who cares about all the expenses such as car payments and house rents that he needs to pay in order to protect and make sure that his wife and children are healthy is a successful husband because the wife and children will be safer and healthier if they live in a house instead of on the street. A husband should be committed as the main money earner for his wife and kids to get enough food and shelter in order to be healthy. On the other side, the wife should know how to take care of kids so that her children will become better people in the future. A wife can also be either minor or major financial supporter for her family to reduce the financial issues in family. Depending on the commitment that each partner decided, they both need to be committed with their responsibilities. If a person cannot be committed to his or her partner in the future, they need to think of a way to do that because commitment is important in marriage. Hence, marriage is a new commitment in a person’s life.

            Furthermore, marriage is a new level of trust between couple because it is really hard to trust someone even though the person is someone really close to a person like the person’s family members. A couple may have developed trust before marriage, but once the couple has married, the level of trusting is different because a person gives his or her life to his or her partner, and trusts his or her spouse to take care of him or her and the children in the future. For instance, if John decides to marry Jane, that means John trusts Jane to stay with him for the rest of his life and trusts that Jane will be with him in either tough or easy circumstances. There should not be any doubt in marriage. A person should not be thinking something negatively about his or her spouse like thinking that his or her spouse will date someone else in the future. A successful marriage happens when a husband and wife can trust each other instead of thinking negatively about one another because it will lead to a happier marriage. Although sometimes people might not satisfied with their marriage, like a study done from Rutgers University in the United States found that couples who stay together are not necessarily satisfied with their marriages (Walljasper 1), trust will make them feel better. Thus, because couple needs to believe one another, marriage is a higher level of trust.

            All in all, marriage is a unification of two hearts, a commitment in a person’s life, and a sacrifice in a person’s life. People nowadays are scared to get married, but they like to have sex without marriage. Besides being happy, marriage also brings many advantages in a person’s life. Studies also show that married people live wealthier, healthier, and happier lives than before. Then why do people still not want to get married? Maybe it is that their parents, or the couple themselves do not believe of the benefits of marriage. Hopefully, people’s perspective in marriage will change in the future.

Work Cited

Walljasper, Jay. “State of the Union”. Print.

Say “No” To Concussion Among Young Athletes

By Farhan Huszaimi

Most concussions happen
in contact sports like
Football.
(Image from
www.northcentralsurgical.com)

            Adolescents and children grow at an extremely fast rate, but they are not considered to be fully developed until around the age of 21. During the Adolescent and children stages, which are ages between 4 to 21 years old, the brain plays a crucial part in the emotional, social, and physical growth of an individual. A person could have a big life problem, such as memory problems, in their future if they have a horrible injury with the brain during the teenager stage and childhood stage. What would happen if an airplane does not function as normal while the plane was at the altitude of 25,000 feet and had a cruising speed of a thousand miles per hour? Everybody on board would think that they have chances to die. The same goes to young athletes with concussions among adolescents and children. Concussions are common among young athletes nowadays; unfortunately, people are not taking this issue seriously. Most people do not know that they are having a concussion, and some may not have even heard of the word concussion before. The issues of concussions have become popular since 2009, because there was “a middle school football player who suffered a severe brain injury after returning to a game following an earlier concussion” (Lowrey and Morain 290). According to Aaron, a football helmet researcher and a businessman, “There are [three] million concussion[s] per year.” (qtd in Kram, 3). This clearly shows that concussion is getting familiar in our culture. Every problem must have a solution, and the same goes to concussion. There are several possible solutions to prevent concussion among young athletes, such as having a better sports equipment, diagnosed by a physician, and altering certain game rules. However, the most effective way to prevent concussion among young athletes would be to have the sport administrators regulate the rules better, the physicians play an important role in diagnosing the athletes before, during, and after games; and the coaches teach their athletes the correct skills and techniques of how to be safe in games.

            A concussion is considered a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) (Lowrey and Morain 290). “Concussion occurs when a blow to the head or body jars the soft brain, causing a temporary disturbance in brain function. The injury can trigger a wide range of symptoms, including headache, nausea, and dizziness.” (Sander). A concussion happens when a person’s brain is hit with a strong force. A concussion happens when a person’s head is hit strongly by a force causing the brain to shake inside the skull. When the brain is shaking, it collides with the wall of the skull which causes serious brain damage, swelling, or bleeding. It could get worse if the athlete forces himself to

Brain hit with skull during concussion
cause brain damages.
(image by www.sciencebuddies.com)

continue playing because it could tear the neuron (brain) cell. The brain can collide with the wall of skull repeatedly until the hit can kill the neuron cells (brain cell) and cause brain swelling, bleeding, or dying. When some part of the brain, such as the frontal lobe located in front of the brain and the occipital lobe located behind the brain, do not work as normal, it can affect the person’s way of thinking. For instance, the frontal lobe is for reasoning and critical thinking. If the frontal lobe hits the wall of the skull, its cells can die. This may cause confusion and depression. Some of the concussion symptoms are depression, memory loss (amnesia), confusion, double vision and many other disorders (Rosenbaum and Arnett). “From 2001 to 2009, the annual number of concussion climbed from 153,375 to 248,414, an increase of 62[%]” (Lowrey and Morain, 290). Why must we be concerned about concussion? What will the problem be if the concussion is not solved? There are some terrible effects if we let young athletes get a concussion.

            What is concussion? “Concussions are a part of the new sporting reality” (Saxon). Many people might not have heard the term “concussion” in their life or may not think it is a serious issue because many people think athletes must be tough emotionally and physically. They might look at concussion as a small non-threatening problem that all athletes will encounter in the course of their spors activities. Most of the concussed young athletes actually have a ‘nightmare’ life story to tell. They could suffer from depression and some of them are not able to walk or do daily activities due to severe multiple concussions. Recent research shows that even subconcussive hits, which is a strong hit at head that not cause a concussion, in children and adolescents may result in longer-term health effects such as decreased cognitive functioning, increased rates of depression, memory problems, and mild cognitive impairment, also known as Alzheimer’s condition (Lowrey and Morain, 290). This is because subconcussive hits might speed up the aging of the brain (Barton). One example of this

We cannot see concussion because
it happens inside our skull
(Image by drcaram.com)

condition is the case of a 21-year-old football player at the University of Pennsylvania who committed suicide after showing early signs of a progressive brain disease previously associated with former professional football players who had suffered multiple concussions (Sander). Besides that, concussions are getting common in our culture. “About 300,000 sports-related concussions occur each year in United States” (Preidt). Concussion cases have been increasing in recent years. Medical journal Paediatrics confirms that “concussions among children have increased sharply in recent years and that head injuries related to basketball, the most popular young sport, are on the rise” (qtd. in Sander). Solutions are clearly and desperately needed to reduce the quantity because all children deserve a bright and healthy future. Furthermore, research also suggests that younger people, especially girls, are more likely to get concussion (Lowrey and Morain). Young children are just too young to understand what will happen to them if they make certain mistakes. If they fall from a bicycle, for instance, they could break their arm and it might heal after one or two months, but if they get a concussion, their life could change forever. For example, the person is a cheerful person before concussion, but he or she may be depressed every day after concussion if the person does not get treatment. It is disheartening to think about how the children will live their life in the future if they cannot walk, talk, or even eat by themselves, for severe concussion cases. Imagine that is happening to our children, wife, father, or anybody that we love. How will it feels like? Concussion problems need solutions, otherwise children who play sports and have high possibility to be a concussed person will continue to be susceptible to the consequential suicide attempts, depression, and confusion. The possibility of multiple concussions will only make the situation worse.

            One of the common ways to prevent concussion is by having better sports equipment. Businessmen believe that having safe sports equipment that can minimize high-risk impacts on the brain can reduce the chance of concussion (Preidt). Preidt states that school students need to wear proper safety gear to reduce their risk of injuries. Radley also believes that athletes need to wear better sports equipment to prevent from a concussion. “Adding some extra soft padding to compensate for the lack of hard shell… leaves a net zero in protection for the wearer” (Radley). The advantage of having better equipment is that it can reduce the chance of getting a concussion of about 30% (Fitzpatrick). Besides that, having better equipment is highly practical and easy to do. It does not require high education or an expert to buy better sports equipment because everybody even athletes themselves know what they should buy for safety. However, Mr. Guskiewicz says, “It [is] not always the big hits that result in the greatest impairment” (qtd. in Sander) and Aaron believes that “there has to be a way to come up with a better helmet” (qtd. in Kram). To these perceptions, Lovell adds, “You could build a super helmet, and the brain is still going to be sloshing around up there” (qtd. in Fitzpatrick). Based on these quotes, they indicate that better equipment is not helping to reduce concussion very much. Despite this finding, Aaron still tries to use “some energy-absorbing and dissipating system” on helmets to reduce concussion up to 48% (qtd. in Kram). That means if a player does not wear a helmet, he or she will have almost half the chance of getting a concussion. Inevitably, money will be the main issue with better sports equipment. It will cost a lot to change the equipment every year. We know that not everyone can afford to buy new sports equipment every year. Furthermore, there might be businessmen who are only concerned with profit and not the customers’ safety. “Concussion have created new opportunities for equipment manufacturers like Unequal, [software] companies, countless universities researchers, and for several medical and

Sports equipment?
maybe not enough to prevent
concussion.
(image by scrippsmedia.com)

academic facilities [to] contend with sports’ most pressing issue” (Fitzpatrick). This shoes that some businessmen do not care about the quality of the sport equipment products, they just care about money. Then, they do not care about lowering the chance of getting concussion among athletes. Thus, despite only offering a small reduction of chance in getting concussed, better sports equipment might still be an effective solution to concussion problems.

            Another possible solution is players should be diagnosed by a physician prior to the game and coaches, parents or sports administrators should work together to prevent concussion. Multiple concussions can be prevented if the athletes are properly diagnosed by the physician before the game. This can increase the chance of curing concussion should it occur. “Everybody, from athletes and parents to the medical profession and sports administrators, needs to be part of the solution” (Saxon). In Saxon article, he gives several steps to treat a concussion. “’When in doubt, sit them out’ said Dr. Margo Mountjoy” (qtd. in Saxon). Coaches and parents should understand and know some symptoms of concussion so that they can bench the athletes out if they, the athletes, show concussion symptoms. Parents and coaches should not force young athletes to continue on playing if the young athletes shows some symptoms of concussion. “[T]he laws are organized around three central provisions: education of athletes, parents, and coaches…” (Lowrey and Morain, 291). This clearly shows that coaches and parents play an important role to stop athletes from playing if they see some symptoms

Physician should play an important
role to prevent concussion

of concussion in them. This solution is somewhat logical because athletes will have been diagnosed by an expert before the game starts. Thus, this can reduce concussion very effectively. However, athletes will have to pay a lot of money to the physician, it is far more expensive than just having better equipment.

            Other than that, altering certain game rules is also a possible solution to prevent concussion in young athletes. “NFL started handing out suspensions to players who make illegal hits of the sort most likely to cause concussions” (Bercovici). Bercovici proposes to bench those players who break the rule for the remainder of the quarter if they hit or make any illegal contact with the head and neck. This is reasonable and it can be an effective way to reduce concussion among athletes. By this the players can be deterred from breaking the rule as it will give bad effects to their sports career. This is because attitude is also important in athletes if they aspire to play at higher levels in sport such as at the international level. However, some players are willing to sacrifice everything to win a competition even if it means they have to break the rule. For instance, “Guys like James Harrison care deeply about winning and about the respect of their teammates. If anything, a fine is something a James to as an example of personal sacrifice he bore to help the team win” (Bercovici). Other thn that, “The problem is just that a $25,000 fine is a mosquito bite to a guy who makes $5 million a year.” (Bercovici). Moreover, if the athletes are in a big competition, the pressure they have to bear might cause them to not think rationally and they might forget about the rules while playing, and they do not care about the fine that they need to pay. Thus, ignoring the rules and making that illegal contact with the opponent’s head, which in turn can lead to concussion, is of high possibility.

            For me, the most effective ways to prevent concussion among young athletes are sport administrators changing certain game rules, physicians diagnosing athletes before any game, and coaches teaching their athletes the correct method to be safe in games. First of all, “Sports need to change rules to make their games safer.” (Saxon). Sport administrators should also change the game rules because it will make athletes be more careful and at the same time try not to do the mistakes that can cause concussion. Conveniently enough, athletes usually have high level of obedience as their attitude and character are an important determining factor for selection for future games. No matter how good the player is, if the player has a bad attitude, a coach will not choose him or her to play for competition. For instance like Mario Balotelli, a soccer player, he has a really bad attitude because he always skip training and do some silly things such as throw a dart to other people at the bar outside the game. As a result, although he is a talented young soccer player in the world, he is not being chosen as the main player in his teams. As a conclusion, by hook or by crook athletes need to follow the rule for the goodness of their sport career. Thus, by changing certain game rules, concussion can be prevented among young athletes.

             Besides that, the physician diagnosing athletes’ general health condition before any game is one of the best ways to prevent concussion because the physician will make sure the athletes are fit to play the game and this can reduce the risk of concussion and multiple concussions. Although the diagnosing is a little bit expensive, I think it is reasonable to pay because life is priceless. Chance of getting multiple concussion will be reduced of every athletes were diagnosed before, during, and after the games. “[M]edical clearance before returning to play” (Lowrey and Morain, 291). The chance of getting concussion will be lower because physician will detect early symptoms or symptoms of concussion itself among athletes. Moreover, athletes who are playing during the game are those who are healthy and people, especially parents, will not worried about their children’s health condition during the game because physician will only allow healthy athletes to play. Furthermore, coaches should teach their athletes the correct and safe techniques to play the game so that they can minimize the risk of suffering from concussion. I feel this is a reasonable alternative because coaches are paid to do this kind of job, teaching the right way. For instance, most children think that they must start

Coaches also play an important
role to prevent concussion

tackling by using the head in football, which is totally wrong. It is coach responsibility to change the false thinking among young athletes. Besides that, it is also inexpensive and highly practical because coaches technically should know how to prevent injuries, especially head injuries, during a match. Thus, the administrators, physicians, and coaches should all play an important role in preventing concussion among young athletes.

            All in all, an athlete should be a healthy person. Children and young athletes have bright future. We should not let sports ruin our children’s future. We should also be concerned about these young athletes’ education and health alongside their sports performance. “The most important thing for young concussion patients is getting them healthy enough to return to school, not sports.”(Saxon). Last but not least, hopefully this fatal and nightmare disorder will be reduced in the future, if not eradicated, and all young athletes can undergo a normal life and play sports with great performance.

by Mohamad Farhan Huszaimi bin M.Pajar,

AS Biology, AS Natural Science, AS Psychology

Work Cited

Barton, Lindsey. “Concussive and Subconcussive May Speed Up Aging of Brain, Studies Suggest.” momsteam.com. Web. 30 Apr 2015. <http://www.momsteam.com/concussive-and-subconcussive-blows-may-speed-up-brain-natural-aging-process-studies-suggest>

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Johnson, LSM. “Return To Play Guidelines cannot Solve The Football-Related Concussion Problem.” J Sch Health. 2012; 82: 180-185. Web. 10 Apr. 2015.

Kram, Mark. “Doctor Develops Absorbing System To Help Prevent Concussions.” Philadelphia Daily News, The (PA) 20 Nov. 2009: Newspaper Source Plus. Web. 10 Apr. 2015.

McGowan, Lowrey, Keeri; and Stephanie R.Morain. “Challenges, Successes, And Lessons For Evaluating Impact” Journal Of Law, Medicine &Ethics. 290-296. Print.

Preidt, Robert. “Safety Gear Must to Prevent Kids’ Injuries.” HealthDay Consumer News Service 14 Sept. 2008: Consumer Health Complete- EBCOhost. Web. 9 Apr. 2015.

Rosenbaum, Aaron M. and Peter A. Arnett. “The Development Of A Survey To Examine Knowledge About And Attitudes Toward Concussion In High-School Students.” Journal Of Clinical & Experimental Neuropsychology 32.1 (2010): 44-55. Psychology and Behavioral Sciences Collection. Web. 11 Apr 2015.

Sander, Libby. “Colleges Struggle To Protect Athlete From Concussion And Its Aftermath.” Chronicle Of Higher Educatoin 57.6 (2010): A-1-A10. Academic Search Premier. Web. 9 Apr. 2015.

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Life Full of Lies

By Farhan,

Ice cube at the Antartica is floating. About 30% of the ice were seen by people, but there is another 70% under the sea that most people don't, only those people with high intellect see it (look at picture at the ed of this article).

Iceberg

The Picture light 1000++ years before this picture was taken

What we see, hear, feel, think, and touch maybe it is real and maybe it is not real. For instance, just look at the sun during noon and the stars at night. That hot sun we felt is not the current condition, it is the sun's radiation 6 minutes ago. Sunlight takes around 6 minutes to earth. For more obvious example, just look at the stars at night. That is not the 'current' stars condition. What you perceive and what people in mars see might be different. The stars that we look every night are more than 1000 years ago. Some of them might reach millions or billions years ago. These indicate that life is full of lies.

Galileo Galilei

Besides that, many scientists are trying to figure out "where is the center of the universe?". Before Galileo Galilei found that the earth is rotating around the sun, people think that the earth is flat. The roman empire thinks that the earth is flat and it is written in the bible book of Roman, states "the world is flat". Other than that in the book of Revelation 7:1are cited, which speaks of “four angels standing at the four corners of the earth.” (http://www.gotquestions.org/). Based on these verses, they claim that the world is flat and they think the sun rotating the earth. Then Galileo Galilei found that the earth is sphere shape and it is moving around the sun. After that, scientists found that the earth is not that sphere, but it is a little bit oval shape. Plus, scientists also found that the sun is also moving along with other stars, then they hypothesized that the galaxy in the center of the universe. Not long after that, scientists realize there are many galaxies, until now scientists cannot find yet where is the center of the universe. My point is not to talk about Hawking theory of time, black hole, or Einstein Theory of Relativity, but my point is to show that life is full of lies and confusing.

The Father of clinical
psychology, Sigmund
Freud.

Furthermore, the most famous psychologist, Sigmund Freud, introduced his theory of psychodynamic and psychoanalysis, which is also a mystery and people are crazy with Freud Theory. Sigmund Freud is the first person introducing clinical psychology. He says based on psychodynamic, there are 2 parts of mind (I don't know what is the best word to put here haha >_<), which are unconscious mind and conscious mind. Unconscious mind is divided into 3. Those 3 are ID, Ego, and Superego. I do not want to talk about this three things. I just want to point out that even in our mind have it own mystery which unsolved yet.Until now Psychologist are trying to find out where is the real 'us'. 

Einstein

Einstein theory of relativity also says that the past is still there, the future is already there, and what are we experiencing now is what known as the theory of "Now". Based on physic, time is like pixels and like movies probably, I'm not really sure about this because it is not my major. The question is, is the future, and the past are 'there' or still exist? Nobody knows the answer. Based on what Muslims people believe, Allah knows what will happen, what is happening, and what had happened. Maybe Einstein is right, but he has a high probability to wrong because his theory is really hard to test. 

NASA picture on Relativity

 As a conclusion, do not get cheated by life easily. No wonder people keep lying if they want something or if they want to convince people because most of nature themselves are also full of lies. If we get lied by the bank, maybe we can pay back the money if we have enough money soon. If we being cheated by our friends, maybe we can find him or her soon after we realized we have been cheated by our friend. What about if we have been cheated by life? What about what we think are all wrong and not true? For instance, we think that alcoholic drinks are good and we like it. Then we drink it every day until we fell sick. We think that video games are best, what will happen if we play it for 3 days non-stop? What about our religion? These are the things that many people do not see.

  Do not think either using brain, or heart only, think using both mind and heart. Don't think what will happen to you 2-3 hours ahead, think what will happen to you 20-30 years in the future. Thanks for reading ^_^.


Mohamad Farhan Huszaimi Bin M.Pajar

AS Biology, AS natural Science

Failure

Feeling Down?

By Mohamad Farhan Huszaimi Bin M. Pajar

           Fail? who love failure? probably nobody loves it. Why? maybe because failure is painful. If it is painful, then why must 'fail' itself exist in this world? why must the feeling of disappointment do exist in this world? I believe, everything, every single thing in this world created for something. Can you imagine what does it look like if people do not feel pain if they fail?

           Can you imagine what does it look like if people do not feel pain if they fail? Probably there will be no Einstein, there will be Steve job, there will be no Aristotle or pluto and other famous scholars in this world. If you feel low and disappointed due to failure, good for you because you are still a human. If you feel stuck in life, if you feel there is no more life for you, if you feel that you want to die, if you feel like death is the only way to solve problems, good because you are still human. 

            Most people come to me and said "Hey Farhan, I'm done, I fail, there's nothing I can do to change my life to be a better person" or "that is it, I'm done with my career in sport" or "I have no money to pay loan" and etc. In other words, most people give up ith their life when they are facing big problems. 

             Have you ridden a bicycle before? how many people fell down when they rode the bike for the first time? probably most of them fell down. Then what do they do? Do they just stay lie on the ground and let themselves sleep on the ground and sink by the rain? no, they get back on their foot. Moreover, look at babies, how many times do they fall down from walking? you can say almost everytime! BUT do they give up? NO, Do they stay on the ground? NO, they keep on trying to walk, they do not care what people said and if people laugh at them, all they do are just walk. Look at the effect, by looking at 4 years old children. They can run, jump, and walk easily without falling down (maybe sometimes if they hit anything). 

            My point is, every success must accompany by failureS. I think there is nobody in this world who experience success without failure. The different between successful people and non-successful people is just successful people, they KEEP MOVING FORWARD if they FAIL, while non-successful people they QUIT after they have failed once or more than 10000. If you have many loans that you need to pay, and you feel that you cannot make it, just give a shot at least you try. If you fail the test many times, learn from your previous mistakes and try again. If you break up with your partner, keep moving forward, people said: "there are many fishes in the sea". Whatever we do we must give our best shot. FORGET THE PAST AND FOCUS ON THE FUTURE. We cannot change the past, what can we do is just change who we will be. The important thing is NOT who we ARE, but WHO WE WILL be in the future.

            That is the nature of life, which keeps moving forward and arise from failure. Every species do that, and we as Homosapien must also do the same thing. Hope I have helped you guys something. I'm really sorry if my words are not really support

Life

When we asked people "how's your life?", they might said "well my life is good, I got a job that I want, a car that like, a house that I dreamt, a family that I love". We will look at the person's happiness of their life based on their current life, I mean we will always think that a person with a big car, big house, tons of money, even with family are happy, but do they happy? If they were happy why there are many people divorce after they have married? why there are students, young students (below 15 years old) kill themselves? there must be something wrong with the world, there must be something wrong with this weird creature, which is human or we can call it as Homosapien Sp. the question is, what is wrong with human?

Only human species kills each other because of politics, religion, and maybe other problems. Plus, human species has outstanding capability that most people don't see. For instance, can we (human) fly without any machine? can we do something extraordinary such as run as fast as car, probably faster than a car? 

well, this is my first time writing blog, I hope I can discover human mystery and share some information on how I perceive the world, probably not like literature for PhD s students or researchers to read, but just for public people to read (if there are any). I am Farhan, call me Peter. I'm just a normal psychology student. This is my first time writing blog, Im not sure whether this is a blog or not, because I looked at other blogs, they are different than this. Nice to meet you guys. Owh btw, my English is not so good, so if you dont understand what im saying, im really sorry for that hehe. 

Mohamad Farhan Huszaimi Bin M.Pajar

AS Biology, AS Natural Science